Hi there this is taken from Love Life ( a Pro-life magazine in the Philippines)
I have cut to the point here and here goes:
"I'm going to end with a sampling of a discussion from Generations for Life about the value of protecting our intimacy and the way our choices are determined largely by how deeply we cherish this intimaccy. This is a comment by a woman named Mary Kay ( I must say, she's pretty creative in explaining!):
I have used that analogy of a candy bar with my 9-year-old. Not wishing to get too graphic with her when she was 7, but needing to address some overtly sexual dancing at a 7 year old's birthday party. I told her that all little girls have a candy bar. Many little boys will try to get that candy bar. If they give their candy bar way, those boys will eat their candy bar and then dump the girl, moving on to fresh girls and fresh cand bars. I told her not to even let those boys taste her candy bar, because hen no boy would want her candy bar anymore. I strongly suggested (I emphasize "STRONGLY") that she furthermore, not even so much as unwrap her candy bar. Some girls like to unwrap it and tease the boys. But this too is inappropriate.
However, one day, when she meets the right boy, and they stand at an altar in front of God and everyone, and she has a nice promisory ring on her finger... them, and only the, may she finally share her candy bar. And she will recognize the boy because he will be the one who never tried to bribe, steal or cajole that candy bar away from her. He will be the one who waited, and respected her.
Believe it or not, a few weeks later, she pointed to a window ad in Victoria's Secret (sexy angels, I believe) and asked if those women were giving their candy bars away...
Out of the mouth of babes...
- Diana "
Well said.... Hope people around the world will read this text.
